Future dates to be announced very soon for D & D Singles & the second D & D Couples 

Couples Dinner & Decadence Evening

30th July Chelsea

£175 per couple

The Concept

Colin was born into the hotel industry. His parents purchased a 130 bed family hotel in Devon when he was two years old. Having grown up within the hotel it was natural that he took over the running of this family business. So from only aged twenty two Colin owned and personally ran Gara Rock Hotel for the next twenty years. Famed for its amazing atmosphere and unique South Devon location, Colin lived and breathed hospitality to the point he was nicknamed Mr Gara Rock. Not only acting as Managining Director Colin also hosted hundreds of weddings, parties and regularly personal entertained the thousands of the families who holidayed there.

In 2005 Colin changed direction and has forged a new career as a successful sex and relationship engineer and sensual masseur. Still bringing pleasure to people but in a much more intimate way.

Although Colin says he would never return to the hotel industry, it is still very much in his blood and so in the past eight years Colin has continued to run events and hosted seven very successful sensual massage parties. Starting with the black tie dinner in Marylebone in 2012 followed by four very successful Couples Affair parties in Pimlico where up to fifty guests enjoyed, saucy games champagne, music, sensual massage and erotic mayhem. 

Dinner & Decadence is a new venture.

As we emerge from the maudliness of Covid the D & D evenings are designed to be a sophisticated intimate event to help people get back into the ‘swing’ of things One can say that a positive outcome of the past 18 months is that many of us have realised how important intimacy is. Not just physical intimacy but social and emotional intimacy. The shared experience, the getting to know, the laughter, the adventure and of course the sensual pleasure of touch.  All of these are what Colin and his partner Clare want to encourage at the Dinner & Decadence evening.  

One might say that 40 years of experience is culminating in the Dinner and Decadence evenings which Colin and Clare hope, will progress to include Decadence weekends and Decadence holidays abroad. 

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The Evening Agenda for Dinner & Decadence 30th July

The evening will begin at the unusually named 28°- 50° ( degrees) Chelsea, a recently opened restaurant in the Kings Road. Arriving between 8pm to 8.30pm you will be greeted by Colin & Clare with a welcome glass of champagne and at 8.30pm you will be ushered in to our private dining area to enjoy a sumptuous three course dinner with each course paired with a house recommend wine.

Non alcoholic options are also available. Dinner will be an opportunity for you to meet and socialise with other likeminded couples.

After coffee you will be invited to venture off to the Intimacy Matters new residence, Tryon House in Tryon Street a short stroll away (or cab) where the evening will continue and where we hope temperatures will continue to rise to boiling point !

Tryon House is a fascinating place, built in the early 1800’s in a Georgian style it appears to be an early example of a bijou period office building. Extending over three floors ( basement, ground and first floor) with three main rooms it has been extended to include a smart kitchen dining area, a conservatory and small outside front yard, totalling 1000sq ft.

On returning to Tryon House you can choose to rest and relax and continue to chat in the living room or for the voyeures among you site yourself  ‘in the kitchen at parties’ to watch a sensual massage demonstration unfold. For those who are eager to put their erotic massage skills to work the first floor room will have two massage bed available. Not forgetting the play bed in the conservatory. There are also two bathrooms with showers and three lavatories.  The choice is yours as to how you enjoy the late night hours. Clare and I want you to have a fabulous fun flirtatious frisky sexually fulfilling evening.

Price £175 per couple

Includes champagne on arrival, 3 course dinner with paired wines with each course, after dinner sexy social including sensual massage exploration with prosecco and soft drinks included.

  • Maximum 30 people at the event
  • This event is open to couples or singles coming with a sexually intimate friend.
  • Location – The Kings Road Chelsea SW3
  • Nearest Tube – Sloane Square
  • Arrival at 28°- 50° Chelsea – 8pm
  • Depart to Tryon House – From 10.30pm
  • Evening finishes – 2am ( approximately)
  • Dress for dinner – Cocktail dress and smart sexy attire
  • Dress for later – a little as you want

Age and body type demographic

We believe that attraction goes far further than just looks and body type and that by having a relaxing dinner with stimulating conversation prior to any intimate activity takes place enables all ages to mix and feel potential chemistry. Experience and wisdom can be just as sexy as toned biceps, pert breasts and a tight bum. The ideal event will have a cross section of ages and physiques and places are allocated  according to the approximate percentage brackets below. 

21 to 30 – 15%

31 to 40 – 25%

41 to 50 – 25%

50 to 60 – 25%

60 + 10%

How to reserve your couples ticket for 30th July

30th July is SOLD OUT

Complete this booking form by clicking  HERE NOW

There is no vetting of guests since we believe attraction is not just about age and looks but also charm, personality and intelligence.  However it is important that you are either a genuine couple or friends who are sexually intimate. This event is open to guest of all sexualities. House guidelines and party etiquette will be sent nearer the time with the evening programme details. Feel fee to contact Colin should you have any questions or require clarification of any aspect of the event.

To ask a questions email Colin at

Once your booking request is received you will be sent details to make a bank transfer.

Since this D & D evening has proved extremely popular ( over 200 survey forms completed ) Payment MUST be made within seven days of being sent the payment request otherwise you will lose your place.


Since we are still not 100% certain of the government guideline of freedom day in July we feel its is sensible to limit this inaugural evening to a maximum of 30 people including hosts and assistant masseurs. In the event that the government guidelines mean we can not hold the event then you can request your fee to be refunded or transferred to a future date.

In the event you need to cancel then if notice is given up to 5 days before your payment will be fully refunded or transferred to a future date. If within five days then the payment will be held and transferred to a future event. If you are a no show on the day then your full payment will be retained.

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Chelsea Cloister

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Sloane Square Hotel

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