Dinner & Decadence Parties


The Principal

In the 17 years that I have worked as a Sex & Relationship Engineer and Sexologist/Masseur,  I have attended quite a few adult events and as an ex hotel proprietor of 20 years my frustration is that that often these parties can feel under hosted and mechanical in their execution.

At a D & D evening we strive to give guests an environment where both the newly exploring and the experienced adult party goer can feel welcome and be able to enjoy themselves to the level they want, without pressure or judgement.

First and foremost a D & D party must be a great party and even if nothing intimate happens guests still leave having had a fabulous time. The environment is designed for guests to initially meet and get to know one another over a three course dinner then move on to a private residence to explore and enjoy intimate erotic play at their leisure.

We believe that attraction is not just physical and the conversation you have at the dinner often leads to something not just mind blowing after. Discretion and consent is paramount and no-one is expected to become involved in anything they don’t want to be involved in.

My partner and I attend every party personally and our role is to make sure you all have a fabulous time. With the help of the naked butler and other massages assistants we are constantly checking your welfare and that you are enjoying yourself. We want you to have a fun flirtatious frisky sexually exciting evening.

The Dinner

Whichever the occasion, the couples night, the singles night, the men only night or the women only night, the evening begins at the unusually named 28°- 50° ( degrees) Chelsea, a fabulous restaurant in the Kings Road, recently featured in the TV show made in Chelsea.  Central London. Guests arrive between 7.30pm to 8pm to be greeted by your hosts Colin & Clare with a welcome glass of champagne. At 8pm guests are ushered in to the D & D  private dining area to enjoy a sumptuous three course dinner with each course paired with a house recommend wine. Dinner will be an opportunity for you to meet and socialise with other likeminded people.

The Decadence

After dinner guests are invited to venture off to the Intimacy Matters residence, a charming bijou Georgian Townhouse a short stroll away (or by cab) where the evening will continue and where we hope temperatures will continue to rise to boiling point!

On arriving at Tryon House you will be offered prosecco or soft drinks by the naked butler. As you settle in a sensual demonstration massage will be in progress for you to watch.

Throughout the house guests can use several rooms that ready prepared with massage beds and play beds to explore with your partner or others. For those that prefer to continue the conversation and take things more sedately the living room is the common area to chat and enjoy the likeminded company.

More details

To learn more about D & D events and the specific details of each party click on the link or image below.

Keep Informed

If you can not make it to any of the events below and just want to be kept informed about future Dinner & Decadence events you can Register Here


“It was a fun evening. Everyone was welcoming. The restaurant was beautiful and food was amazing. The hosts organised a great event. It was exceptional. Highly recommended”

Check out other reviews given by past attendees of the Dinner & Decadence evenings – Click here

Couples & Singles Party


Friday 8th April 7.30pm to 3pm

(Mixed gender and multi sexuality)

To learn more about this Couples & Singles Nights and to book your ticketClick Here

Couples & Singles Party

Friday 13th May 7.30pm to 3pm

(Mixed gender & multi sexuality)

To learn more about this Couples & Singles Nights and to book your ticketClick Here

Couples & Singles Party 

Saturday 25th June

(Mixed gender & multi sexuality )  

To learn more about this Couples & Singles Event and to book your ticket – Click Here

How to buy tickets to attend a Dinner & Decadence event

  1. For any of the above events you must first complete a D & D application form  – Apply Here
  2. Once received and providing we still have places available you will be sent the link to purchase your ticket on line.
  3.  Places are not confirmed until payment is received
  4. Or if you just want to be kept informed about future Dinner & Decadence events you can Register Here

Ticket Price

Single Ticket – £135

Couples Ticket – £250

Price includes – Champagne on arrival, 3 course dinner with paired wines with each course, after dinner sexy social including sensual massage exploration with Prosecco and soft drinks included.

  • Maximum 30 people at the event
  • Location – The Kings Road Chelsea SW3
  • Nearest Tube – Sloane Square
  • Arrival at 28°- 50° Chelsea – 7.30pm
  • Depart to Tryon House – From 10.30pm
  • Evening finishes – 2am ( approximately)
  • Dress for dinner – Cocktail dress and smart sexy attire
  • Dress for later – a little as you want

Age and body type demographic

We believe that attraction goes far further than just looks and body type and that by having a relaxing dinner with stimulating conversation prior to any intimate activity takes place enables all ages to mix and feel potential chemistry. Experience and wisdom can be just as sexy as toned biceps, pert breasts and a tight bum. The ideal event will have a cross section of ages and physiques.

There is no vetting of attendees but we will always balance male and female numbers, if appropriate. We do however reserve the right to refuse applications. Our events are open to guests of all sexualities. House guidelines and party etiquette will be sent nearer the time with the evening programme details. Feel free to contact Colin should you have any questions or require clarification of any aspect of the event. To ask any questions regarding the above please email Colin direct at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk

Cancellation terms

Up to 24 hours before – If you wish to cancel the booking and written notice is given up to 24 hours before the event date then your payment will be fully refunded

Within 24 hours – Because the restaurant has been paid if you cancel within 24 hours and of the event date then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS

No show at event – If you are a no show then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS

The Restaurant 28-50

Example menu –this is subject to change

 Non alcoholic options and specific dietary requirements are also available to be catered for on request.

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