Sensual Massage Experience

Two or four hands sensual massage for one partner while the other watches or takes part

A sensual experience that can be tailored to suit your imagination and desires but remain within your personal boundaries. 

Since 2010 I have been helping couples explore and expand their sex lives. In that time I have seen over two hundred couples. Additionally , in the past two years, as women have begun to appreciate there is more to enjoy sexually than they are used to, they are encouraging their partners and so I am seeing more and more couples every year.

Why is sensual massage a great idea?

If a couple are only used to single partner intimacy but want to explore to include others, the thought of going on line to find others or attending an adult party can be daunting. An alternative solution is take one of the two or four hands sensual massages set out below as these are ideal for taking this first step.

Whats on offer?

The Watch & Enjoy, Watch & Touch or Give With Me massages,  enables one partner (usually the female if a heterosexual couple) to be the focus and to receive expert touch, while the other partner either watches or takes part.  This enables the couple to test this new exciting environment in a discreet confidential manner that includes what they want but also remains within their agreed boundaries.

The Tandem massage, where both are massaged together side by side, is usually then next step in a couples journey. For the couple who have more underlaying sexual challenge I recommend the Psychosensual Treatment which includes counselling and the teaching of new sexual skills and psychological dynamics to bring the sexual relationship back on track. Couples can also take things further by taking a private live Couples Sensual Massage Class. or On Line Class.

The Couples Dinner & Decadence Evenings that I host in Chelsea London is a safe but exciting event to start to meet other couples.

Reason to be cheerful!

Here are some of the reasons couples have given me for wanting to explore sensual massage as part of their journey.

  • I see couples who have been together for some time and want to re establish an intimate connection and re energise their sex life.
  • I see couples who are newly together who want to enjoy an intimate life on an open exploratory sexual agenda to learning more about one another and what each other likes.
  • I see couples who want to attend an adult party but want an introduction to sharing intimacy with others before attending.
  • I see couples because they want to experience the other partners pleasure or maybe fulfilling a fantasy together.
  • I see couples who want to explore a bisexuality but in safe and discreet situation.
  • I see couples who just want to have fun!

Check Out What Other Couples Say

What ever the motivation I take great care to tailor the experience to the couples desires

To help couples decide what is best for a couple I have created a selection of appointment options. Ranging from the Watch & Enjoy, the Watch & Touch, The Give With Men. Couples Four Hands Massage and the joint Tandem Massage experience with two masseurs (Colin and a male or female assistant masseur)

What ever your reason for exploring sensual I hope there is something here to suit you. However,  I am happy to tailor into the experience to any specific desires you may have,  so just drop me an email and let me know what you have in mind.

What massages are included within a couples experience?

The couples massage options are only given by Colin with Premium Absolute Massage for a female and the  Premium Massage or Standard massage for the male.

How erotic can the massage become?

If you want to ask a specific question about the level of erotic content included within the couples massages please email or call or if I am on line use the chat option and once I have heard your situation, motivation and aspirations I will be happy to go into more detail.  If you do contact me please be clear and open about what you are wanting.

Email or call or text, WhatsApp me on 0044 (0)7966 522696

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The Couples Sensual Massage Choices

Below are the options in brief. For the full details of each massage register with Intimacy X

Single Male Masseur

No 24 – The Watch & Enjoy (Cuckold) Experience  £245

This is a wonderful experience where one partner, (usually the female) enjoys the full-body 90 minute Absolute massage while the other partner  ( male, female or trans) watches whilst sitting in the same room. To learn more about modern day cuckolding and why many couples are exploring this Click here

More details on this massage can be read by registering with Intimacy X

No 25 – The Watch & Touch (Shared) Experience – £275

This 90 minute massage begins with forty-five minutes of expert sensual massage given by Colin then when Colin feels the receiver is ready he invites the other partner to join him for the remaining 45 minutes to continue giving the 4 hands experience. A great experience for the couple who are looking to explore swinging or adult events but want to explore a controlled three person adventure safely and discreetly first.

More details on this massage can be read by registering with Intimacy X

No 26 – The Give With Me (Partner) Experience – £295

Given as a 90 minute 4 hands experience with Colin and your partner. This is not a teaching massage but more an experiential massage that can be tailored to your desires and boundaries. One partner joins with Colin giving a full body sensual massage to the other partner.

More details on this massage can be read by registering with Intimacy X

No 27 – The Standard One After The Other Experience  – £295

Consecutive 75 minute massages given to you both one after the other by Colin with any of the above options included.

More details on this massage can be read by registering with Intimacy X

No 28 – The Superior One After The Other Experience – £350

Consecutive 90 minute massages given to you both one after the other by Colin with any of the above options included.

More details on this massage can be read by registering with Intimacy X

Two Masseurs

Colin give with either a female masseur or another male masseur

Tandem Massage – From £450

The Tandem is the ultimate shared sensual experience for any hedonistic couple seeking to indulge their deepest desires, whilst laying side by side.  Colin will work together with another female or male masseur to bring both you and your lover to sensual climax, using full body massage and erotic touch to engage and arouse the whole body and pleasure senses. You and your partner are simply invited to lay back, relax, and indulge yourself as two individuals, whilst being intimately connected in the sensual satisfaction of this experience. Click here to read more about the Tandem Massage

Specific Motivations

Here are some more specific motivations couples have given for taking the couples experience.

Female receiving

  • The male partner either waits in a comfortable waiting room nearby or departs after dropping of the female partner and returns at the end.
  • The male partner wants to watch his female partner being massaged as seeing her receiving from another person pleasure gives him pleasure.
  • Female partner wants to explore sensual and erotic arousal but is more comfortable with a partner present.
  • Female partner wants to experience a different erotic dynamic than the one they have become used to.
  • Female partner likes to perform for her partner.
  • Sharing the experience makes her feel closer to her male partner
  • Female wants to explore same-sex intimacy but with her partner present
  • Lesbian couples want to experience sensual arousal from males but in a safe controlled environment

Male receiving

  • Male wants to have an erotic experience from another female but with his own partner present.
  • Male partner wants to explore his sexuality but in the presence of his female partner.
  • Female partner wants to watch her male partner being sensually massaged by another man or woman
  • Gay male partner wants to watch his partner being sensually massaged by another man.

Both receiving together

  • The couple is thinking of opening up their relationship sexually and feel this is a good place to start as it’s professional, boundaried and discreet.
  • They both want to try something new but with the other present and enjoying the experience with them
  • The one or both of the couple want to explore their bisexuality so the masseur sweeping as they give allows for safe seem gender contact.
  • A fantasy one or both have had and with time on their hands, this is the perfect way to explore and create memories.

Testimonials from past Couples

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Make a Booking or Enquiry

To make an enquiry or to book an appointment with Colin:

Or you can call or text Colin on 0044 (0)7966 522696

To check Colin’s availability – Click here

Or chat with Colin online or leave a message

(Or scroll down the page for more details of each massage)

Conditional acceptance – No surprises!

I do not give surprise treatments so a condition for me to accept your booking is that I need confirmation you are both fully supportive of the idea and in agreement of the content. To ensure this I ask you to complete one of the respective Authorisation & Request Forms below.

What massages can be included within a couples experience?

The couples massage options are only given by Colin with Premium Absolute Massage and the  Premium Massage or Standard massage for the male.

About Colin (your masseur)

I am a sex and relationship engineer and master sensual masseur. Fundamentally, I take a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy and see myself as a sex educator and general problem solver of sex and relationship needs and challenges. I aim to help people transform their relationships and sex lives to become what they want and deserve. Working full time in this field since 2005 I have discovered and used various different approaches that are not generally covered by conventional methods to help people in this intimate part of their life. By combining my knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur I am able to work with both the emotional and sexual.

I work with single women, men and couples of any age and orientation.  To list a few of the more frequent aspects I help people with they include; relationship conflict, finding the right partner, reawakening one’s sex life, sexual frustration, lack of sexual experience, sexual performance challenges (inability to orgasm, erectile issues), fear of sex, experiencing sexual complacency in a relationship, and particularly for women exploding libido or low libido. I created Intimacy Matters in 2012 and since then I have helped over 6000 people in many aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach to sex and intimacy is best described as humanistic in that I look at the biological, psychological, social, anthropological and erotic influences behind our sensual desires, curiosities and fears. I work with men women and couples of all sexual orientations. Read More

The Psychosensual Treatment For Couples

The Couples Psychosensual Treatment – £375

Overcoming challenges in the relationship and learning new sex play skills. Three-hour appointment includes 60 minutes sexual performance and relationship mentoring and a 90 minute Absolute or Intimacy sensual massage. Click here for more details about the Couples Psychosensual Treatment

Frequently Asked Questions

I am sure before you decide on which massage you want to book you will have many questions. Please click this link to read the answers to most of the questions I get asked. If I do not cover your particular question then please do not hesitate to email me.

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Learn more about Cuckold

Click Here to read Colin’s article on the possible motivations behind the cuckold experience.


Unless otherwise arranged couples appointments are given at my Chelsea Sw3 London Treatment Rooms.

Hotel and home visits can be arranged but this does add travel and extra time costs.

Introductory 15 minutes FREE Call

Coming for a couple experience can be a big step for some so I offer a 15-minute free phone call. Sometimes one of the couple want the experience and the other is unsure so a phone call with you both in open chat can help you understand what is involved and how the experience would unfold. If you do want to speak to Colin then text him on 07966 522696 or email his on to arrange a callback

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Terms & Conditions & Insurance 

Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance with BGi insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) However it must be noted that clients taking any sensual massage, a psychosensual massage or any form of sensual treatment that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign an agreement form before and after the treatment.

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